Mort Fertel Review – At Last! TRUTH about Marriage Fitness. Will it really fix your marriage problems?

Posted on March 22, 2011 by Mikk 16 Comments

Hey there, this is Mikk…

I’m a survivor of some serious marriage problems and had to fight tooth and nail to stop my divorce. And if you’re here today, it’s gotta be for the same reasons so welcome to this Official Mort Fertel Review blog where you’ll be getting an official review of Fertel’s “Marriage Fitness” program.

But before you start, let me say this, “I was completely clueless and STUPID when it came to marriage counseling, marriage help or how to stop a divorce.” I went through tons of marriage help books and visited a lot of websites providing marriage help but nothing worked. In fact, we even went through traditional marriage counseling. What a waste of time and money!

It was so frustrating trying to find the right marriage help. I was in a complete PANIC mode with serious marriage problems and scrambling to stop my divorce. I was looking for answers and wished desperately to find a program that could help. And that’s why I started this Mort Fertel Review blog.

Because when you’re trying to stop your divorce, it’s crucial you get the right advice. As such, this will be your Uncensored, Unbiased, Unrestricted opinion of Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness program. What you’ll find in this Mort Fertel Review is insider information to guide you in regards to whether or not the Marriage Fitness program is right for you.

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Fix Your MarriageSo…what exactly is Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness Program?

In a nutshell, “Marriage Fitness” is a program within the marriage help books field but rather than being a simple book, it’s a COMPLETE course on how to fix your marriage problems even if there’s been infidelity in marriage.

The program is a comprehensive interactive multi-sensory relationship-changing course that uses written explanations, interactive excercises, homework assignments, reading assignments, relationship habits, journal entries, tele-seminars, Q&A teleconferences, 1-on-1 private sessions, and audio CD listening experiences to help transorm your marriage.

It’s very easy to use and contains a simple step-by-step program guide which takes you by the hand through the whole course and directs you when to listen to an appropriate CD or teleseminar or when to call in for your 1-on-1 private session and so on.

The beauty of the Marriage Fitness program is its self-guided nature. Meaning you can go through it as fast or as slow as you’d like. I personally devoured the information as fast as I could because I knew time was against me. When you’re trying to stop a divorce time is definitely not on your side so it’s very important you take action immediately on concepts you feel will help fix your marriage problems.

Not only did the program start making an immediate impact on my spouse but even more important was the helpful benefits it had on me personally. For example, there are exercises designed specifically to make you feel better about the situation you’re now facing. You may not think it possible but these exercises work instantly to help you relax and give you piece of mind so you can actually get some desperately needed rest tonight.

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But that’s not all. The 15 audio CDs you get with the program have the ability to become your daily lifeline for effective marriage help advice. I listened to these CDs constantly day in day out and they helped tremendously to get me through the day.

In fact 8 of the CDs are titled “That’s What I Was Going to Ask? Which are recordings of Mort Fertel talking with his clients about their personal marriage problems.  Surprisingly there were so many problems mentioned in this 8 CD set that related directly to my own problems. These were  aha moments where I thought to myself “holy crap…that’s exactly the type of problem I’m having right now!”

And the power of having an instant answer to your questions during a phase in your life where you are trying to hold so desperately on to your marriage and stop your divorce is priceless.

Now…it may seem I have nothing bad to say in this Mort Fertel Review but it’s not true!

Here’s what I did NOT like about the “Marriage Fitness” program!

  • I had to wait for my 1-on-1 private session with Mort. Of course I was very anxious to get my personal questions answered and hoped (stupidly I guess) Mort could make time for me immediately. At the time I wasn’t thinking about the fact Mort had thousands of other clients he was trying to help too.
  • I also didn’t like the fact I had to call in for the tele-conferences. I was hoping more for some type of recorded sessions I could access at any time. Of course now that I look back, this was also an unwarranted disappointment at the time considering I had over 15 CDs to answer all my questions if I wanted. It just seemed at the time I was intent about accessing everything immediately which obviously is unrealistic and unnecessary

How about the GOOD points about Mort Fertel Marriage Fitness program?

Wow…where to begin?

  • The step-by-step nature of the guide was priceless. It was so easy to follow and so well thought out and touched upon so many different aspects of saving a marriage. I was clueless until I read this entire guide.
  • Being able to speak directly with Mort Fertel was huge. Even though a lot of answers to pressing questions were covered in the guide as well as the teleconferences and audio CDs, it was still amazing to be able to ask Mort a question specific only to me.
  • The “Answers to Your Pressing Questions” section of the guide was amazing. It was a Q&A layout of pressing questions which you no doubt currently have about marriage help. For example, “How do I know I married the right person?” or “How do I get my spouse to change?” The answer to this is crucial and you need to know it right now! And how about “How do I know when it’s time to call it quits?”
  • The personal journal. I wasn’t to jazzed about this at first but the way Mort made you go through this exercise was amazing and instantly made you feel better so at first I didn’t like it but then fell in love with it.
  • Mort’s explanation titled “A Surprising Solution for Your Marital Situation” was eye-opening. I never thought this would be the answer to my marriage problems but it worked amazingly. You’ll be so surprised with how simple the answer to fix your marriage could be.
  • What to say and what not to say. For example, should you tell your spouse “I love you?” This was very important to me and the fact this program answered the question was huge.
  • Teaching “How to Live Love”. The program did an excellent job in teaching how to fall in love again. And it did it regardless of how your spouse is reacting. Falling in love when your spouse is being nice to you is EASY but how about when they’re being indifferent. Can you still fall in love? Yes…if you follow the advice in this program. The effectiveness of Mort’s advice when it comes to this will blow you away. It’ll make you feel like you’re a kid in love again.
  • The program also taught how to reconnect with your spouse. When you’re in the throws of how to stop a divorce, the last thing you’re trying to do is “reconnect” with your spouse BUT that’s a crucial mistake and Mort teaches you how to reconnect in a very short time.
  • And how about “How to Stay In Love”. Here Mort teaches you all the steps you need to maintain in order to never be face divorce again. The process is spelled out in very simple terms and is very easy to understand and implement. Trying to do it alone without a game plan is a recipe for disaster and Fertel does an excellent job in giving you a road map to follow. This was and “STILL IS” priceless for the success of my marriage which today is better than it ever was.

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So…what’s the final verdict. Did Mort Fertel save my marriage?

YES…he did. My wife and I got back together after 9 months of separation and I owe it all to the Mort Fertel Marriage Fitness program. Not only did the program show me how a successful Fix Your Marriagemarriage is supposed to be but it showed me “my faults” which was crucial for me. At first I blamed my wife for everything because she fell out of love with me but I now know why she did. I was making classic mistakes and not thinking about the devastating consequences they have on a marriage.

Since then my wife and I have been on 4 separate vacations. We call each other 2 or 3 times a day just to tell each we love each other and see how each of us are doing. We both wake up and do nice things for each other throughout the day. We do almost everything together. We go out EVERY week for date nights. We joke around…have fun…go bowling…watch movies. All the crazy things we used to do when we were “In Love”. In fact we’re madly in love with each other and truly feel our marriage and relationship is better today then it ever was.

So if you’re thinking “Maybe I should – Maybe I shouldn’t” trust this Mort Fertel Review, I say do! You won’t regret getting the Marriage Fitness program. Even if for some reason it doesn’t help save your marriage, it will still give you the tools necessary to make you an amazing person and spouse. You’ll be so glad you bought this program because it contains no fluff and is straight to the point and will help you immediately.

I sincerely wish you the best and hope this Mort Fertel Review was helpful to you.

~ Mikk

Click Here for the Official Mort Fertel Marriage Fitness Site

PS. I completely forgot to mention the Marriage Fitness program works EVEN IF you’re the ONLY one looking for marriage help. This program will help you even if your spouse isn’t interested in working on your marriage. I personally had to go it all alone when I first started this journey! It was hard and I don’t know what I would have done without this easy to follow guide.

PPS. Another nice thing about Mort’s website are the FREE emails he’ll start sending you immediately titled “7 Secrets to Fixing Your Marriage.” Get instant access to these FREE Secrets by Clicking Here

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Talk Charge – Little things make a BIG Difference!

Posted on March 20, 2011 by Mikk 21 Comments

So far this Mort Fertel Review has touched upon general concepts on how to stop a divorce and fix your marriage problems but hasn’t given you any specific techniques to make this happen.  And that’s what this post is all about.

When you’re looking for marriage help be very careful whose advice you follow.  There’s a lot of people – including your friends and family – who’ll be the first to jump in and tell you how to fix your marriage.  Don’t listen to them! Unless they’ve gone through some type of marriage counseling don’t listen even to a single word they say.

Here’s why!

In marriage problems it seems only logical at times to stop talking to your spouse because all you do is end up fighting.  And when you talk to your friends or family about it, they all seem to say the same thing…“maybe you need some space…give it some time and it’ll be all alright.”

There’s no doubt instances where this technique works but in more cases than not, it is disastrous if your goal is to fix your marriage problems and here’s how Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness is different than all those other marriage help books.

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He tells you to talk!  In fact, he says to do it often.  Maybe even up to 5 or 10 times a day.  You may think he’s crazy but he’s not.

Truth is…Mort Fertel knows what he’s talking about because he’s used these very techniques to stop a divorce in his own marriage.  But here’s how his suggestion is different from all the other types of marriage counseling and marriage help books out there.

Most all other programs keep advising you to talk about your problems and keep talking about them until you’ve fixed them.  As if talking about your problems and regurgitating all the things that annoy you about your spouse is really going to help.

In fact this is what normal marriage counseling with therapists is all about.  They just keep visiting the same problems over and over again trying to fix them but never get anywhere.

And that’s exactly what Mort Fertel wants to steer you away from.  He uses the term “table your issues”.  What he means by this is to NOT talk about your problems.  Instead talk about something completely unrelated to your marriage problems.

This can be very difficult to do when you’re in the throws of trying to stop your divorce but it’s extremely crucial and quite simple once you’ve practiced and prepared for it.

And here’s how you do it?

Prepare yourself for what Fertel calls “Talk Charges”.  These are simple short reasons for you to contact your spouse.  These talk charges should be as similar as possible to how you USED to communicate with your spouse when you first met.

For example…

  • call your spouse to tell them some funny joke you just heard (I personally found a site online with daily jokes and found the best ones to share);
  • remember the old times “hey honey…remember when xxx”;
  • find something cute or funny in the newspaper or a magazine and share it;
  • tell your spouse about the dream you had last night;
  • share a childhood memory;
  • ask your spouse how their day is going AND really listen to them;
  • compliment something your spouse is wearing;

The list is endless really.  At first it seems a daunting task because you’re probably thinking “ohhh…my spouse doesn’t want to even hear from me right now.” And that could make you not do it at all.  But don’t fall for this.  That’s your pride talking to you and pride is a killer and will never help anyone stop a divorce.

Yes, it can be difficult to make that first phone call.  You may even have a spouse that’s ignoring your calls.  Don’t let that stop you.  Leave them a short message instead.  And here’s the best part;  these talk charges are designed to be short bursts of conversation to begin with.  They’re not meant to be long.  They’re simply your way of expressing to your spouse that you are thinking of “only them” in that EXACT moment of time and you wanted to share something with them.

Think back…isn’t that how it used to be when you first fell in love?

Well, that’s exactly what these talk charges are designed to bring back.  They need to become part of your daily marriage fitness routine so you can once again begin to feel like you felt when you first fell in love.  This exercise is for you just as much as it is for your spouse.  Don’t underestimate it’s power and start using it immediately. It’s these types of little things that can make a BIG difference to save your marriage.

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Put Love First – personal ATTITUDE inspired by Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness Program

Posted on March 20, 2011 by Mikk 12 Comments

My goal for this website was to write an unbiased Mort Fertel Review featuring his Marriage Fitness program because after going through his entire program, I learned some astonishing things about myself and why I was having marriage problems.

You see…I like most probably you was madly in love with my wife when we first met. We were inseparable! If I wasn’t in my college classes I was either at home hanging with my friends or with her. We constantly shared everything with each other. Were always on the phone and did everything together and were pretty much best friends. Life seemed perfect and the next logical step was to get married…have a family and live happily ever after.

BUT it didn’t quite work out like that. Truth is…we had a great relationship (so I thought at least) for a long time and things just got better and better when we decided to have children. Marriage problems were the farthest thing from our thoughts. We used to laugh at other couples we knew who had a whole library of marriage help books. Our standard comments used to be “aww…those poor guys…they’re just not in love”.

In fact friends and family used to often remark how great of a couple we were. And quite honestly I thought the same thing. However, I was unbelievably wrong! I know I can’t and I doubt my wife can really pin point it to a certain date in our marriage but slowly we were falling out of love with each other and I was clueless. On the surface, everything seemed perfect but looking back now, I realize all the devastating mistakes we made.

I was busy at work…trying to make a living for our family. My wife quit her job to be a stay-at-home mom. We stopped going out together. We stopped calling each other as much during the day. We stopped thinking of ways to do nice things for each other. We stopped going on trips with just the two of us. Everything we did involved our new addition to the family…a precious little girl we adored tremendously. We stopped doing things alone – we had no “us” time.

We didn’t quite recognize it at the time but we desperately needed marriage help. We were slowly on the track to getting divorced and drifting apart at an alarming rate with separate lives until one day my wife said the dreaded words to me “I love you but I’m not in love with you!”

I was devastated. My stomach started hurting instantly. My mental image went straight to a picture of us we had in the house where we seemed so happy and it shattered into a million pieces in front of me. I couldn’t bear the thought of losing 50% of our children’s lives because divorce seemed inevitable. It was a gut-wrenching moment in my life like I’ve never ever experienced before.

“Ouch…what just happened?”

It’s easy to see now. We just plain fell out of love and failed to Put Love First!

What exactly does putting love first mean?

It simply means our life is just like it used to be BUT now:

  • We make sure we take time to speak with each other 2 or 3 times during the day. It can be for 30 seconds to 5 minutes. Just a simple phone call to say “hey honey…I miss you…how’s your day going?”
  • We now go out together “ALONE” once a week for date nights. We have a scheduled babysitter who comes every saturday night.
  • We now wake up every morning and say something nice to each other immediately.  Something as simple as “I’m so grateful for you.”
  • Every morning I think to myself “what can I do today that will show Denise I love her?”
  • We now find each other buying small gifts for one another because we’re always thinking of each other and when the opportunity arises, we pick something up for one another. It could be as simple as an iced coffee from Starbucks.
  • We now go on annual trips…just the two of us. We’ve been to Jamaica twice and Mexico once. Both small trips for about 4 days each but enough to recharge our love for each other. We’re just about to go back to Jamaica.

In reality, our daily routine hasn’t changed much but the thought of how to stop a divorce was so overpowering that I couldn’t help but transform my day to day actions to fix my marriage problems. The things mentioned in this Mort Fertel Review besides the yearly trips are so easy to employ. If you just take the time to use the tips mentioned above you will have no need for marriage counseling and it will be very easy to stop divorce if that’s where you’re headed. Even if you’re facing some extreme crisis like infidelity in marriage!

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Welcome to the Official Mort Fertel Review Site featuring “Marriage Fitness”

Posted on March 20, 2011 by Mikk 8 Comments

Hi and welcome to Your Official Mort Fertel Review Site where in the next days I will be posting updates and my opinion on the “Marriage Fitness” program. I unfortunately needed marriage help a while back and researched a lot of different ways on how to stop a divorce and after an EXHAUSTING search decided to purchase Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness program.

On top of giving you a fully uncensored review so you can decide for yourself if this is the right alternative to marriage counseling for you, I will as well be posting tips and tricks you can immediately use to take advantage of this program.

Because, truth is some of the concepts you’ll be learning might seem very difficult at first but after using them, you’ll soon find them coming naturally to you.

Now, whenever you’re dealing with marriage problems or perhaps infidelity in marriage, the thought of how you’re going to cope can seem quite daunting. There’s definitely going to be times where you doubt if these methods to stop your divorce will work or not but that’s when you need to rely on the step-by-step instructions provided with this program.

The reason why many people fail in the arena of how to stop a divorce is because they give up too soon. It’s extremely FRUSTRATING trying to save a marriage because there’s always two people involved and giving up seems to easy when your spouse isn’t responding the way you want. Though this thought is understandable, you DON’T have to allow it to control you and your behavior.

Because this journey you’re about to go through is more about you then anything else. You’re probably blaming everyone but yourself right now but the truth is…”it takes two to tango” and whether you’re facing it now or later, YOU had a part in causing your marriage problems. The faster you accept that, the easier it will be for you to stop a divorce!

At some point you’ll be ready to face the music and work on saving your marriage and Mort Fertel’s Marriage Fitness will be an extremely valuable tool for you to refer to. Marriage counseling is no joke. There are sound principles in play to effectively stop your divorce – don’t try to do this alone!

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